This country has an abiding faith in the power of understanding. If we just understood each other, our differences would disappear and this uncomprehending world could become one.
Such faith, though touching, is perhaps unwarranted. For one thing, it is unlikely. Edward Seidensticker, I believe, once opined that, actually, a more complete understanding could lead to a more total disapproval.
For another, in this country understanding becomes hopefully identical with agreement. If you come to understand us, says the argument, then you will come to agree with us and, in time, will become just like us. Mutual understanding becomes unilateral.