Zac Edwards
Teacher, 32 (Australian)
My wife wants to be a housewife and look after the children. I have taken the breadwinner role, and she controls the finances. Handing over financial control was the most difficult thing to adjust to.
Kristen Shimomiya
19 (Japanese American)
A Japanese guy is more likely to just ask me to hang out first and maybe a date would come later. In the U.S. he would ask you on a date and it would all be pre-planned with dates, times and places.
Kostas Georgizos
Thai masseur, 33 (Greek)
As a Greek I like to joke, dance, drink and shout. I am much louder than the typical Japanese. There is a cultural difference in humor; things that I find funny my girlfriend may be offended by.
Sachie Tsuyuki
Thai masseuse, 29
My boyfriend and I are more concerned with the core of who we are as a human beings rather than a particular nationality. Cultural difference exists between us but is not a priority.
Kou Takanashi
Self-employed, 33
When my wife and I were dating, I avoided arguments but she was confrontational. Now I ask her to say why she's angry in Japanese. This is a good way to calm her down so we can work it out together.
Lanis Takanishi
Recruiter, 30 (Canadian)
When my husband and I went on trips, we would spend days shopping for "omiyage." I didn't understand this custom and it made me angry. Now I'm more understanding and he doesn't buy so many.
With your current subscription plan you can comment on stories. However, before writing your first comment, please create a display name in the Profile section of your subscriber account page.