"Girls should be soft-spoken and dress modestly." When I was growing up in my hometown of New Delhi, this phrase summed up expectations of women — ideas that, to this day, remain deeply ingrained in my country, despite advancements in gender parity.
After moving to Japan — a country known for its polite and soft-spoken interactions — I discovered that Japanese women faced similar social pressures. Furthermore, based on my contact with migrants both in Tokyo and Berlin, where I now live, I have observed how the status of married Indian women is to a certain extent influenced by the broader female condition of women in their host societies.
Belonging is a complex concept for migrants. Born in one country, the experience of living in different places leads us to develop a sense of home in multiple locations. As we immerse ourselves in novel environments, we adopt and learn new cultures that, in turn, shape our existing values.
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